Monkey Business Program

Programs for mothers (with or without children) who experience conflict in relationships with children. And want to experience more harmony. So that they are Self-Loving to themselves and their children.
A Self-Loving ability is about feeling a strong connection, alignment, and cooperation with your children – and yourself.

Where you and your children are welcome as they are. With all their intense emotions like tantrums, anger, and (victim) sadness tears. Creating a surrounding where you and your children feel safe to express themselves.

This is a surrounding where children are equipped to live their true essence. And follow their own needs effortlessly. A place without fear, control, or enforcement. A place where they feel loved and safe to play, communicate, and be themselves.

Fear and conflict in your relationships. Indicates unfamiliarity and discomfort within yourself.

• Do you feel comfortable connecting freely with all your emotions?
• Do you feel comfortable giving space to all that is – in every moment?
• Do you know your needs? And can you freely follow your needs?

Hakuna Matata
Children are very curious. We try to explore the world around us. And try to understand things. We have our ways of expressing ourselves. Our natural ways of flowing, e.g. moving, dancing, playing, art, feeling, observing, and exploring. We use all our sensations (feelings, touch, smell, listening, speaking/singing). When we grow, we also learn to use words, read, and write. Which often constricts our senses, eg. overestimating eyes and mouth. When we spent a lot of time in active learning: reading and writing. We can become overstimulated.

You can say that during that time we overused our brain power. And hung upside down for too long with too much energy flowing to brains. And it’s important to get back into your belly space. A space where rest and recharge take place. And where you can connect with your essence and unique way of flowing.

Especially in the early years, you swing back and forth between your stomach and your brain. Or your default mode becomes hanging upside down. Living from your brain. And letting all energy stream to only your head rather than to whole your body.
However, children’s natural way of flowing originates from their bellies. Disturbed by their surroundings (stress). Causing an automatic (nervous) system reaction eg flight, fight, freeze. And leading to being in our head, e.g. becoming hyper or lethargic. Until the system calms down, and they experience a safe space again. Where children return to their natural way of flowing.
These early years – of my monkey business – are about experiencing and exploring your early imprints. Imprints that activate your automatic nervous system. And unfolding and distinguishing your unique natural way of flowing.

This is a shift towards falling and rising again – like a child.

The Impossible = Possible

As children when we remain connected as a whole. And are supported to live their essence. We experience a more meaningful life. We feel more connected to the source we originate from. Similar to being a baby. When our consciousness is already present before conception. And children who unexplainably (cannot always put the words to it) though wonderful intuitively communicate our/their imprints to you. Only if you could know how to hear them! And you can when you decide to.

When we are living from our center. Our belly, heart, and brain are aligned. We live from our body as a whole. And we instantly know what we want. There is no confusion between the brain, heart, and belly. Because the answer from those 3 is aligned – and you hear 3 times YES belly, YES heart, and YES brain. You know when the 3-YES are there. And you know when the 3-YES are not there.

At this stage, you are aware of your wall of resistance that brings confusion in your brain, heart, and belly. You are aware of your conditioned beliefs that overestimate the external pressure and values, and you stay true to your inner values. Then you are well equipped to face any distortion of your automatic nervous system.

Your consciousness becomes a way of living. Knowing exactly what you need to do. Or knowing when not knowing makes sense. You know a variety of (inner) help sources. Plus you are trusting that you are following your own pace on your journey. And everything unfolds in divine timing. You dare to have inquiries and dialogues about out-of-the-box questions that come to mind.

Step by step you are trusting and acting on dreams that come from a place from deep within. Not from a place of pain, fear, and illusions. It is from a place of love, calm, and trust. You know that your ideas will spark. And are taking more shape in time. A time of deep inner growth that gradually spreads via magical creations into the world.

This is a discipline and will become a way of life.