Hi! I am Nicole Kemp
An Intuitive Coach & Biodynamic Bodyworker
Let’s say I am an (inner) conflict conqueror, sensitivity spirit, repression reliever, and compassionate co-partner. I help daringly conscious Mothers to create space for their true selves. To “Be” for them an unconditionally loving and safe space where they can express their emotions.
Mothers struggle with:
1. finding a safe space to Be their true selves, where all of them, and all their emotions are welcomed.
2. staying connected to their Bodies, so they can move through their walls of protection, and follow their free flow of emotions until they return to their normal relaxing state.
3. trusting their Emotions, using their emotional compass as a place of strength.
4. becoming aware of their emotions, creating space for their true emotions and needs during their daily routines of care, chores, and work.
Your sensitivity to your emotions IS the key to living a life of true inspiration and love. That is why for daringly conscious mothers it is so important to stay attuned & make space for their true selves with their pure emotions.
For the past 6+ years, I have been living my life from a place of true inspiration and love, – staying true to my values and needs of what matters most to me.
My full-time Motherhood is a conscious choice. While growing my business with the growth of my son. Since pregnancy, I have created & sold The Taboo Card Game, Christmas Edition (English & Dutch versions). And I facilitated various types of Taboo workshops & guided individuals.
I am grateful to Be of inspiration to find new ways, to stay true to your path. And navigate with you to get more clarity on your life, and your values.
That is why I designed various creations to enlighten new ways in your life, that match your pace and your focus.
Either your focus is to enlighten your (1) Family of Origin, (2) Inner Child, and/or (3) Motherhood. Or you like to deep dive into (4) Taboo Themes, and/or (5) Taboo Emotions.
All my creations are there to experience more trust, unconditional love, and connection in your (new born) family relationships, at any time – especially when facing conflicts.
I am proud when Mothers experience more profound awareness and clarity to help them find new ways in their lives, in their roles as Daughter, Wife, and Mother. They can do this because they experience a safe, and unconditionally loved space to feel welcomed with all.
My journey to turn fear into trust
When caregivers had asked me to focus on myself rather than on others. Or when a career coach asked me: what do you want? Or what about you? Then all my answers circled back to that my existence to live is to help others.
The part that I did not get to with my first caregivers. Was my underlying fear. My illusion. My fear that when I focus on myself, I could lose the one I love most. I needed to experience a burn-out, to actually realize I need to focus on myself. And I need help as anyone else. And asking for help is a very healthy and social thing to do.
To turn my fear into trust. Required to face my fear of not losing others. And helped me in recognizing my underlying need: staying connected to myself. So, surprisingly, my fears weren’t about others. They were about myself. My truth gradually unfolds itself – by choosing to do my inner journey work. Enabling to live my unique life. And inspiring and letting others to do the same.
You can overcome your Fear. And gain clarity on your underlying Needs.
My growth to turn my fear into love, trust, and connection in family relationships. – has come to a level that I can help others to recognize, and understand fear. And not to ask them to disconnect with their loved ones to be there for themselves. This would trigger an unconscious resistance. Because in the current reality, that does not feel as the right thing to do (at this moment).
My approach is to connect with your current reality. And to navigate with you through your swamp of (un)conscious problems, pains, fears, … And to increase your resilience with breath, body, and intuitive (dialogue) coaching.
So that you increase your self loving capacity to be there for your wholly you. As a strong fundamental to be there for yourself, and for your loved ones.
At the core of my coaching, is your relation with trust, love, and connection. Navigating through these values, and looking for the source origin. Eg. From Family of Origin Systems towards your own New Born Family.
My first self-loving steps did not come naturally
From head to body, body to heart, heart to soul, and soul to spirit
The moments that felt like a gift. The moments when I made space for myself and was able to wade into a field of unconditional love, free from “shoulds and musts”.
Before my burnout, I experienced sessions. Where I experienced a lot of musts. From myself. And from the caregiver. The extent to which the helper is in a pure field determines whether I feel free to show myself.
Yet feeling free to show myself was not enough. I still found myself in a wall of resistance/protection, because it didn’t feel safe to show myself. Often I felt stuck in my head or stuck in oppressed feelings.
Self-loving Capacity is feeling free, safe, connected, agreed, and collaborated in making yourself visible at your pace.
Self-loving steps are gently allowing the layers of resistance/protection to playfully unfold. Take your time with that layer of protection. Entering that layer, moving through it, self-loving receiving it, and trusting that clarity follows.
What I experienced is the importance of slowing down here. And to weave a safe web at the pace of the coachee. Meaning, for me the real deal starts here. That’s where the gold is. The (oppressed) emotions. The golden tears. That once wanted to flow. But didn’t. I invite you. To cry that river with no end, while knowing – to your surprise. You wíll reach the mouth of the river into the calm sea. The moment, you can give bedding to all your tears.
“She didn’t know it couldn’t be done,
so she went ahead and did it”
– Mary S. Almanac